Abuse can be anything from verbal to physical. For those of you in or previously in an abusive relationship, you are not alone. There are others here to help and support you, or just listen if you need to vent.
This is a safe place for you to be able to share your experiences (so PLEASE no "You are so dumb for getting in that relationship", "Why don't you just leave" etc.)
Please read the rules before posting.
No off topic content.
Be respectful to each other and keep your comments supportive. Avoid rude, unkind, and unhelpful comments.
Write in a clear and concise manner, no abbreviations. Gunakan bahasa Inggris dan/atau Indonesia yang baik dan benar. Hindari penggunaan singkatan.
State your age and gender, e.g. 29F, or 33M.
Posts may be deleted for any reasons the forum administrators deem reasonable.
Oftentimes people who post here have been, or are going through, hard things and are here for support or to support others. Name-calling, trolling, and hate speech are not okay. Abuse is NEVER the victims fault and there is nothing they "do" to deserve it.
Respect people's privacy:
Do not post anything that can allow someone in, or formerly in, an abusive relationship to be identified in real life. There are abusers out there who will hurt the person if they know they are seeking help or support, and people who are trying to ensure their former abuser does not find them. Please make sure nothing you are posting will put someone at risk. If you are posting about a friend/family member, it is a good idea to change their name or use acronyms for security.